The Full Moon Day or 15th Purnima day of the Shukla paksha (waxing moon) of the Kartika month is considered very auspicious. The full Moon is usually in Taurus and therefore exalted. At times this festival can take place with the full Moon in Aries- but it represents a strong and auspicious Moon. Usually this is the full Moon in the month of November. It has many names including the Diwali of the Gods and Tripuri Purnima. This day marks the victory of Lord Shiva over the demons Tripuri. The Kartik Purnima festival also coincides with the Jain light festival and Guru Nanak's Birthday.
Tripuri Purnima is one of the most propitious day for worshipping of Shiva, next only to the Maha Shivaratri. According to Mahabharata there were three sons born to the demon Taraka. Taraka was killed by Kartikeya (Mars). Taraka’s sons were called Taraksha, Kamalaksha and Vidyunmali. Demons in Vedic philosophy are very intelligent and strong but they tend to use their knowledge and strength towards the wrong means. These demon sons of Taraka had performed severe penance towards Brahma and won the gift of immense power. Brahma is the creator, The boon that they received, granted them that they would live for a thousand years in three invincible, moving cities known as Tripuri and that they could only be destroyed by one arrow that would merge the three cities into one, and set them to fire. Tri means three and Puri means cities. Tripuri were resplendent, made up of gold, silver and iron respectively. They were built to rival Indra’s grand city. As such powerful demons, the Tripura spent all their time and energy to harass the gods. The power was such that it was difficult to control their destructive tendencies. Their cities never remained in one place long enough therefore it was difficult to destroy them together.
At the end of a thousand years of their negative rule, the gods went to Rudra (Shiva) and asked him to destroy the demon. Rudra had to seek the help of Brahma and the other gods in this task. He danced Tandava, his dance of destruction. He rocked the three cities with his dance (The Tandava of Shiva is said to be like an earthquake); his arrow pierce through the three demons at one time and the fire from his third eye burnt the three cities.
In commemoration of burning and destroying the demons and their cities, this event, which occurred on Kartik Purnima day, is observed annually. While Diwali is the Rama’s (God in a human form) triumph over the demon, Dev Diwali celebrates the Global fight against eveil forces that disturb the harmony of the universe and saving of the whole universe from the destructive intention of those with negative gaendas. While Brahma can create, how people use their creation is up to them. It is Shiva who can save the world when the creation goes wrong. This form of Shiva is known as Tripurantaka for killing the three demon princes and destroying their evil cities.
It is believed that annually on the day of Kartik purnima, the gods descend on earth and reside in the sacred rivers. Ganges and other sacred rivers have elaborate ceremonies on this day. Devotees who bathe in the sacred rivers on these days can also get rid of their negative poisons and receive the blessings from all the Gods of the India.
To celebrate this day we can also cleanse our inner selves. To bathe our mind in the spiritual waters even if we do not live near sacred rivers. Allow the spiritual light to burn away all the questionable traits within. It is not the show of cleaning the outer selves but to rid of our mind and life of its wrong qualities like fear, greed, envy, anger, arrogance and wrong desires and replacing those with forces of love, compassion, generosity, kindness, and light.
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Monday, November 10, 2008
सिस्टंस नेवर सेपरातेस तवो heart
for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there
But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you
I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss
Sometimes I miss you so much
I just want to rip you out of my dreams and hug you!
The rose that you gave me has faded, and wilted away
But, the love tucked in deep inside, remains in my heart forever
See there's this place in me, where your fingerprints still rest
your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo
It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me
Will I wait a lonely lifetime? If you want me to, I will
I will love you all my life
and when I die I will still love you, through eternity and beyond
A ring is round, it turns forever
and that's how long we'll be together!
I love the sun for days, the moon for nights
and you forever, I'll surrender my world to you
if that is the only way I could become a part of yours
The beating of my heart is a drum, and it's lost
and it's looking for a rhythm like you
If you love someone, you have to look before you leap
It takes a second to say I love you, but a lifetime to show it
When I miss you, I don't have to go far
I just have to look inside my heart, because that's where I'll find you
I heard someone whisper your name
but when I turned around to see who it was, I was alone
Then I realized that it was my heart telling me that I miss you
If you love me as I love you
nothing but death can part us two
Tears in my eyes
you on my mind
love in my heart
oceans in between
I love you
Close together or far apart
you're forever in my heart
But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you
I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss
Sometimes I miss you so much
I just want to rip you out of my dreams and hug you!
The rose that you gave me has faded, and wilted away
But, the love tucked in deep inside, remains in my heart forever
See there's this place in me, where your fingerprints still rest
your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo
It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me
Will I wait a lonely lifetime? If you want me to, I will
I will love you all my life
and when I die I will still love you, through eternity and beyond
A ring is round, it turns forever
and that's how long we'll be together!
I love the sun for days, the moon for nights
and you forever, I'll surrender my world to you
if that is the only way I could become a part of yours
The beating of my heart is a drum, and it's lost
and it's looking for a rhythm like you
If you love someone, you have to look before you leap
It takes a second to say I love you, but a lifetime to show it
When I miss you, I don't have to go far
I just have to look inside my heart, because that's where I'll find you
I heard someone whisper your name
but when I turned around to see who it was, I was alone
Then I realized that it was my heart telling me that I miss you
If you love me as I love you
nothing but death can part us two
Tears in my eyes
you on my mind
love in my heart
oceans in between
I love you
Close together or far apart
you're forever in my heart
हाउ तो क्नोव इफ यू अरे इन love
What, then, is this elusive thing called love that everyone sodesperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she isbeautiful ? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kindof "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her PrinceCharming, is not real love. It is better known as "infatuation", andthere is a vast difference between it and real love. Here, we help youto differentiate and find out if you are really in love and not justinfatuation.
Infatuation
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also.Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love ofdevotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in reallove both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fallinto" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seena girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This isinfatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction; often youdon't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus,infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl youlove her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basicallyselfless . Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself andthe "feeling" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarilyinterested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Loveunselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly,infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love isstrengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there willbe no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain inseparation if you are truly in love.
Love
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love.
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to waitpatiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficultydating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly loveher, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at thesituation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problemswhich prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patienceand understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so muchthat you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster?Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time togrow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for therelationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respectsthe feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatestsatisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1.
2. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
3. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.
4. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
5. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
6.
Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates aninsecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, butjealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement,"If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!"Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restricther relationships with others.
Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is notanxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impressher so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does notneed to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited,boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has aservant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "Ican take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You oughtto be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course,this is not love.
Love always covers
This word cover means to passover in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faultsof others. It doesn't criticize and broadcast to the world the faults ofothers. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
Love always Perseveres
Love always stands itsground and holds out. It will outlast anything. It will even love inthe face of unreturned love.Real love will last though all sorts oftrials, tribulations and stresses.
Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has along fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easilyoffended. Love does not seek its own This is the heart of love. Love isother-centered rather than self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I wantto give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly
This means that lovedoes not behave disgracefully, dishourable or indecently. It does notembarrass others by its action. It is characterized by tact andsensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Besure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offeringher your arm when you walk together.
Love is forgiving
Lastly, this is a MUST for asuccessful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forgetwhen his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Lovedoesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remainresentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
Infatuation
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also.Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love ofdevotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in reallove both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fallinto" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seena girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This isinfatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction; often youdon't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus,infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl youlove her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basicallyselfless . Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself andthe "feeling" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarilyinterested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Loveunselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly,infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love isstrengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there willbe no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain inseparation if you are truly in love.
Love
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love.
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to waitpatiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficultydating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly loveher, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at thesituation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problemswhich prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patienceand understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so muchthat you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster?Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time togrow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for therelationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respectsthe feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatestsatisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1.
2. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
3. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.
4. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
5. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
6.
Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates aninsecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, butjealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement,"If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!"Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restricther relationships with others.
Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is notanxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impressher so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does notneed to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited,boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has aservant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "Ican take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You oughtto be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course,this is not love.
Love always covers
This word cover means to passover in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faultsof others. It doesn't criticize and broadcast to the world the faults ofothers. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
Love always Perseveres
Love always stands itsground and holds out. It will outlast anything. It will even love inthe face of unreturned love.Real love will last though all sorts oftrials, tribulations and stresses.
Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has along fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easilyoffended. Love does not seek its own This is the heart of love. Love isother-centered rather than self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I wantto give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly
This means that lovedoes not behave disgracefully, dishourable or indecently. It does notembarrass others by its action. It is characterized by tact andsensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Besure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offeringher your arm when you walk together.
Love is forgiving
Lastly, this is a MUST for asuccessful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forgetwhen his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Lovedoesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remainresentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
हाउ तो क्नोव इफ यू अरे इन लव?
What, then, is this elusive thing called love that everyone sodesperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she isbeautiful ? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kindof "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her PrinceCharming, is not real love. It is better known as "infatuation", andthere is a vast difference between it and real love. Here, we help youto differentiate and find out if you are really in love and not justinfatuation.
Infatuation
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also.Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love ofdevotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in reallove both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fallinto" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seena girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This isinfatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction; often youdon't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus,infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl youlove her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basicallyselfless . Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself andthe "feeling" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarilyinterested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Loveunselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly,infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love isstrengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there willbe no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain inseparation if you are truly in love.
Love
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love.
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to waitpatiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficultydating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly loveher, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at thesituation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problemswhich prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patienceand understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so muchthat you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster?Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time togrow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for therelationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respectsthe feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatestsatisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1.
2. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
3. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.
4. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
5. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
6.
Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates aninsecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, butjealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement,"If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!"Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restricther relationships with others.
Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is notanxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impressher so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does notneed to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited,boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has aservant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "Ican take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You oughtto be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course,this is not love.
Love always covers
This word cover means to passover in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faultsof others. It doesn't criticize and broadcast to the world the faults ofothers. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
Love always Perseveres
Love always stands itsground and holds out. It will outlast anything. It will even love inthe face of unreturned love.Real love will last though all sorts oftrials, tribulations and stresses.
Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has along fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easilyoffended. Love does not seek its own This is the heart of love. Love isother-centered rather than self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I wantto give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly
This means that lovedoes not behave disgracefully, dishourable or indecently. It does notembarrass others by its action. It is characterized by tact andsensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Besure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offeringher your arm when you walk together.
Love is forgiving
Lastly, this is a MUST for asuccessful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forgetwhen his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Lovedoesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remainresentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
Infatuation
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also.Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love ofdevotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in reallove both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fallinto" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seena girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This isinfatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction; often youdon't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus,infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl youlove her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basicallyselfless . Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself andthe "feeling" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarilyinterested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Loveunselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly,infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love isstrengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there willbe no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain inseparation if you are truly in love.
Love
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love.
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to waitpatiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficultydating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly loveher, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at thesituation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problemswhich prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patienceand understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so muchthat you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster?Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time togrow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for therelationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respectsthe feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatestsatisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1.
2. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
3. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.
4. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
5. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
6.
Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates aninsecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, butjealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement,"If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!"Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restricther relationships with others.
Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is notanxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impressher so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does notneed to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited,boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has aservant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "Ican take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You oughtto be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course,this is not love.
Love always covers
This word cover means to passover in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faultsof others. It doesn't criticize and broadcast to the world the faults ofothers. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
Love always Perseveres
Love always stands itsground and holds out. It will outlast anything. It will even love inthe face of unreturned love.Real love will last though all sorts oftrials, tribulations and stresses.
Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has along fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easilyoffended. Love does not seek its own This is the heart of love. Love isother-centered rather than self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I wantto give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly
This means that lovedoes not behave disgracefully, dishourable or indecently. It does notembarrass others by its action. It is characterized by tact andsensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Besure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offeringher your arm when you walk together.
Love is forgiving
Lastly, this is a MUST for asuccessful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forgetwhen his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Lovedoesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remainresentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
लव someone
If you Love someone because you think he or she is gorgeous....
then it's not love: It's - "Infatuation" -
If you love someone because you think you should not leave him or her because other think you shouldnot....
then it's not love: It's - "Compromise" -
If you love someone beacuse you think you cannot live without his or her touch....
then it's not love: It's - "Lust" -
If you love someone because you have been kissed by him or her...
then it's not love: It's - "Inferiority Complex" -
If you love someone because you think if you leave it will hurt his or her feelings...
then it's not love: It's - "Charity" -
If you love someone because you share everything with him or her....
then it's not love: It's - "Friendship" -
But if you feel pain of the other person more than him or her even when he is stable and you cry for him or her...
that's - "LOVE" -
If you are attracted to a person and stay with him or her for ever without any regrets...
that's - "LOVE" -
If you let him go knowing that he or she has to go but he or she doen't want to...
that's - "LOVE"
then it's not love: It's - "Infatuation" -
If you love someone because you think you should not leave him or her because other think you shouldnot....
then it's not love: It's - "Compromise" -
If you love someone beacuse you think you cannot live without his or her touch....
then it's not love: It's - "Lust" -
If you love someone because you have been kissed by him or her...
then it's not love: It's - "Inferiority Complex" -
If you love someone because you think if you leave it will hurt his or her feelings...
then it's not love: It's - "Charity" -
If you love someone because you share everything with him or her....
then it's not love: It's - "Friendship" -
But if you feel pain of the other person more than him or her even when he is stable and you cry for him or her...
that's - "LOVE" -
If you are attracted to a person and stay with him or her for ever without any regrets...
that's - "LOVE" -
If you let him go knowing that he or she has to go but he or she doen't want to...
that's - "LOVE"
लव...
Love is the word that makes one go into dreams of bliss and the word that can take one into pain. It all depends, how your love turned out. If you were stabbed in the back, pain will be the result and if you got loyalty, it will be pleasure. When one looks at the scenes of destruction of one's love, when one revisits the places where love had blossomed, below the flowering trees, one goes in to the memories of the lost love. It hurts and it hurts very badly. Similarly the love that enriches us can be invaluable. It gives a new breath, a new life. Love can give life and when lost, life may be lost. Call it addiction to love or whatever, love is a feeling that cannot be described in words. it has to be felt.
We hear about many break-ups and separations. What happened to the love that brought the couple together in the beginning? How can ex lovers talk of revenge? In love, there is no revenge. If your beloved stabs you in the back, you will not ask for revenge, because you loved and you still love. As I have yet to talk to someone who stabbed the beloved, I don't know about his or her thinking, but it must be that of - how could I do this? Or may be they are so evil that they applaud themselves for their backstabbing!
Love is sublime. Love gives power. Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of. Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky.
We hear about many break-ups and separations. What happened to the love that brought the couple together in the beginning? How can ex lovers talk of revenge? In love, there is no revenge. If your beloved stabs you in the back, you will not ask for revenge, because you loved and you still love. As I have yet to talk to someone who stabbed the beloved, I don't know about his or her thinking, but it must be that of - how could I do this? Or may be they are so evil that they applaud themselves for their backstabbing!
Love is sublime. Love gives power. Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of. Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky.
तवो choices
What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child."
Then he told the following story:
Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"
Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!"
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.
"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world".
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child."
Then he told the following story:
Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"
Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!"
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.
"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world".
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
मोमेंट्स इन life
There are moments in life when you love & miss someone so much
that you just want to pick them from your dreams
and hug them for real! And to know that depth of love
is truly as wonderful as life itself.
When one door closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the
closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
Don't love for looks; they can deceive.
Don't love for wealth; even that fades away.
Love someone who makes you smile,
because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
But remember to always have a smile within your own heart first.
Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human and
enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything that they have.
The brightest future will always be based on a darker past;
you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyone
around you is crying.
that you just want to pick them from your dreams
and hug them for real! And to know that depth of love
is truly as wonderful as life itself.
When one door closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the
closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
Don't love for looks; they can deceive.
Don't love for wealth; even that fades away.
Love someone who makes you smile,
because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
But remember to always have a smile within your own heart first.
Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human and
enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything that they have.
The brightest future will always be based on a darker past;
you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyone
around you is crying.
People come into your life for a reason
People come into your life for a reason,
a season or a lifetime. When you know which
one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time,this person will say or
do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been
met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime
lessons, things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season
or a lifetime.
a season or a lifetime. When you know which
one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time,this person will say or
do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been
met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime
lessons, things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season
or a lifetime.
मेअनिंग ऑफ़ Friendship
Friendship is the best relation one can have ever in his entire life. Friendship is a lifetime bond, a divine affiliation and a loving emotion which do not seek inheritance. Friendship is a relation which we build after stepping into the mortal world. There is no blood relation in friendship, it is a relation that threads in hearts. Friendship cannot be explained in words. It is an intense feeling that buds in the heart of two friends.Friendship blooms from faith, love and respect built by two hearts that come close to each other with a feeling that they can share their joys and sorrows throughout their life. In the middle of a work day when your friend checks his mailbox and he happens to find one of these: A cute friendship, a famous friendship, a funny friendship or true friendship , he is going to feel real good and would be reminded of you with fondness.
You don't need an occasion or reason to honor your friend or thank him or her for their support. You can pay a tribute to them at any point of day and by any means. Reciting to your friend some beautiful friendship is one of the most soothing way to express yourself to your loving friend without saying much. Friendship is not about leading or following, it is simply being with each other to share each and every single moment of our lives. These simple words contain in themselves the entire beauty of friendship. Friendship doesn't imply any scholarly line of statement, it can be woven into simple words with deep thoughts. You can recite friendship of renowned poets to honory our friend but lining up your emotion in your own words is the most natural and loving manner of expression anytime.
Friendship can denote varied emotions. It can be to inspire your friend when he or she is in blue, it can be a heartening note when your friend will head for a fresh challenge in life, it can be a consolatory note when your friend is in a state of despondency and it can also be a note of sweet nothing which can be addressed without any cause or event.Friendship makes you feel loved through and through for being the person you are. Friendship is the most selfless bond one can share in his entire life.
Friendship help you to speak those heartywords about your friend which you may not be able to describe in mere informalspeech. A friend loves every bit of yours even if you bear devilish traits morethan angelic ones. You can convey these thoughts of yours through friendshipquotes. Good friendship strike chords in nearly everyone'ssoul. Friendship buy an everlastingsmile on your friend's face, the moment he gets to hear or read it. Friendship explain you the role of a friend in your life in arhythmic pattern. It tells you that a friend is like a father who would scoldyou when you will do a mistake, a friend also acts as a mother who would embraceyou when you are in deep sorrow, a friend will tease and play pranks on you likeyour sister, a friend is one who would shield your integrity and protect youfrom all odds just like your brother, in short, a friend is an embodiment of allworldly relations. A true friend is a depiction of every relation we are closeto in our life with just a little difference that we possess those worldlyrelations by blood and friends are made by us. We choose our own friends andit's very important to make sure that they stay with us forever.
Friendship is a rare and precious commodity. If youhave a friend, who truly understands you and accepts you despite yourshortcomings, then you are the luckiest person in the world. Friendshipquotes portray this expression in a beautiful rhyme, gripped in few lines. Friendship also determine the fact that a true friend walks in whilethe whole world walks out. True friendship means a single soul thatdwells in two bodies. You can always count on true friends. They help youride out every storm, they cheer you when you are down and they chide you whenyou are wrong. Sometimes you get so preoccupied with life's mundane troublesthat you do not find the time to tell your friends how much they mean to you. Itis when you can express you heart with the help of some really meaningful andsweet friendship quotes to your dearest friend.
There is a very famous friendship whichstates that 'a friend in need is a friend indeed'. This friendshipis very simple to sound but it reflects a deep thought which states that afriend who wouldstand by you all through and even in your worst times, he or she will beyour true friend. Friendship doesn't mean sharing joys, having fun andthen walking off when you are hurled into the depth of gloom. Friendshipmay sound to be only a monosyllabic word but it has an intense connotationweaved inside. It is a friend with whom you can share all your grief and joyresting your head on his or her shoulder. You can voice those words to yourfriend which you can never tell your parents. You tend to trust him or her morethan any relation on this planet.
You can bestow your love and affection on your dearestfriend by reciting some beautiful friendship quotes either crafted byyourself or you might as well pick some good stuffs from the works of poets. Friendship quotes define every emotion and are also created for everysituation. Friendship quotes can be categorized as friendship love, friendshipinspirational , friendshipthank you , friendshipsorry,best friend, classic friendship, true friendship,forever friends , friendship sayings andmake friends. True friendship demonstrate thetruth that true friends would laugh at yourjokes when they are not so funny and they will as well sympathize with yoursorrows when they are not so harsh.
To sum up, friendship are one of the mostsignificant ways to confer one's feeling to his or her friend. Friendship help you express how much you love andcare for your friend. Friendship make it easier to confessyour guilt and apologize if you have hurt your friend consciously orunconsciously any day. One friendship will speak volumes about yourfeelings that you want to convey to your friend and you can actually make use ofit when words will fall short to define your emotions.
You don't need an occasion or reason to honor your friend or thank him or her for their support. You can pay a tribute to them at any point of day and by any means. Reciting to your friend some beautiful friendship is one of the most soothing way to express yourself to your loving friend without saying much. Friendship is not about leading or following, it is simply being with each other to share each and every single moment of our lives. These simple words contain in themselves the entire beauty of friendship. Friendship doesn't imply any scholarly line of statement, it can be woven into simple words with deep thoughts. You can recite friendship of renowned poets to honory our friend but lining up your emotion in your own words is the most natural and loving manner of expression anytime.
Friendship can denote varied emotions. It can be to inspire your friend when he or she is in blue, it can be a heartening note when your friend will head for a fresh challenge in life, it can be a consolatory note when your friend is in a state of despondency and it can also be a note of sweet nothing which can be addressed without any cause or event.Friendship makes you feel loved through and through for being the person you are. Friendship is the most selfless bond one can share in his entire life.
Friendship help you to speak those heartywords about your friend which you may not be able to describe in mere informalspeech. A friend loves every bit of yours even if you bear devilish traits morethan angelic ones. You can convey these thoughts of yours through friendshipquotes. Good friendship strike chords in nearly everyone'ssoul. Friendship buy an everlastingsmile on your friend's face, the moment he gets to hear or read it. Friendship explain you the role of a friend in your life in arhythmic pattern. It tells you that a friend is like a father who would scoldyou when you will do a mistake, a friend also acts as a mother who would embraceyou when you are in deep sorrow, a friend will tease and play pranks on you likeyour sister, a friend is one who would shield your integrity and protect youfrom all odds just like your brother, in short, a friend is an embodiment of allworldly relations. A true friend is a depiction of every relation we are closeto in our life with just a little difference that we possess those worldlyrelations by blood and friends are made by us. We choose our own friends andit's very important to make sure that they stay with us forever.
Friendship is a rare and precious commodity. If youhave a friend, who truly understands you and accepts you despite yourshortcomings, then you are the luckiest person in the world. Friendshipquotes portray this expression in a beautiful rhyme, gripped in few lines. Friendship also determine the fact that a true friend walks in whilethe whole world walks out. True friendship means a single soul thatdwells in two bodies. You can always count on true friends. They help youride out every storm, they cheer you when you are down and they chide you whenyou are wrong. Sometimes you get so preoccupied with life's mundane troublesthat you do not find the time to tell your friends how much they mean to you. Itis when you can express you heart with the help of some really meaningful andsweet friendship quotes to your dearest friend.
There is a very famous friendship whichstates that 'a friend in need is a friend indeed'. This friendshipis very simple to sound but it reflects a deep thought which states that afriend who wouldstand by you all through and even in your worst times, he or she will beyour true friend. Friendship doesn't mean sharing joys, having fun andthen walking off when you are hurled into the depth of gloom. Friendshipmay sound to be only a monosyllabic word but it has an intense connotationweaved inside. It is a friend with whom you can share all your grief and joyresting your head on his or her shoulder. You can voice those words to yourfriend which you can never tell your parents. You tend to trust him or her morethan any relation on this planet.
You can bestow your love and affection on your dearestfriend by reciting some beautiful friendship quotes either crafted byyourself or you might as well pick some good stuffs from the works of poets. Friendship quotes define every emotion and are also created for everysituation. Friendship quotes can be categorized as friendship love, friendshipinspirational , friendshipthank you , friendshipsorry,best friend, classic friendship, true friendship,forever friends , friendship sayings andmake friends. True friendship demonstrate thetruth that true friends would laugh at yourjokes when they are not so funny and they will as well sympathize with yoursorrows when they are not so harsh.
To sum up, friendship are one of the mostsignificant ways to confer one's feeling to his or her friend. Friendship help you express how much you love andcare for your friend. Friendship make it easier to confessyour guilt and apologize if you have hurt your friend consciously orunconsciously any day. One friendship will speak volumes about yourfeelings that you want to convey to your friend and you can actually make use ofit when words will fall short to define your emotions.
Monday, November 3, 2008
बेऔतिफुल girl
This flower caught my eyes.
May be it was the fresh scent, may be it was the bold display of colours, it’s radiance.. something.. it made me turn.
I couldn’t see it very well in crowd but couldn’t take my eyes of it. There was a strange force drawing me towards it.
I decided to step towards it.
As I went near, an amazing thing happened. It began to change!
In a moment it was a smiling torch.
I blinked over and over again…
It was then surrounded by ferocious tigeresses. It’s eyes were glittering!
I rubbed my eyes. It suddenly disappeared…
Then suddenly some time later flower transfigured into an angel.
Just as I was thinking of drawing my sengal out, it changed again.. into the beautiful flower.
Mustering all the courage that I had, with a hand holding tightly on the sengal, I went closer, initially at a slower pace during interval and later at good pace after the movie.
It did not change.
I went closer and closer.
No change.
I was now almost at a touching distance.
I went closer and thought f having a chat..
It wasn’t there anymore !
In front of me suddenly the ferocious tigeresses popped up…
Unfortunately I couldn’t use any pop up blocker there…
My friends pulled me out of it and we went in 6wheeler and the flower along with those tigers went in 3wheeler…
Flower refers to the Girl in green chudidhar who came to Gopi krishna hall yesterday.
Tiger’s refers to her mother and some anonymous lady.
Sengal refers to Nokia 6600…
Update:one day, green leaves will fade away,
faded leaves will fall away, fallen leaves will be thrown away,
but green flower will never fade from my memory…
May be it was the fresh scent, may be it was the bold display of colours, it’s radiance.. something.. it made me turn.
I couldn’t see it very well in crowd but couldn’t take my eyes of it. There was a strange force drawing me towards it.
I decided to step towards it.
As I went near, an amazing thing happened. It began to change!
In a moment it was a smiling torch.
I blinked over and over again…
It was then surrounded by ferocious tigeresses. It’s eyes were glittering!
I rubbed my eyes. It suddenly disappeared…
Then suddenly some time later flower transfigured into an angel.
Just as I was thinking of drawing my sengal out, it changed again.. into the beautiful flower.
Mustering all the courage that I had, with a hand holding tightly on the sengal, I went closer, initially at a slower pace during interval and later at good pace after the movie.
It did not change.
I went closer and closer.
No change.
I was now almost at a touching distance.
I went closer and thought f having a chat..
It wasn’t there anymore !
In front of me suddenly the ferocious tigeresses popped up…
Unfortunately I couldn’t use any pop up blocker there…
My friends pulled me out of it and we went in 6wheeler and the flower along with those tigers went in 3wheeler…
Flower refers to the Girl in green chudidhar who came to Gopi krishna hall yesterday.
Tiger’s refers to her mother and some anonymous lady.
Sengal refers to Nokia 6600…
Update:one day, green leaves will fade away,
faded leaves will fall away, fallen leaves will be thrown away,
but green flower will never fade from my memory…
Cricket
(Aussies):It’s best to avoid standing between a competitive jerk and his goals… “GOALS”
You can do anything if you set your mind to when you have vision, determination and an endless supply of expendable labor… “ACHIEVEMENT”
A few harmless flakes working together can unleash an AVALANCHE of destruction… “TEAMWORK”
(PAK): A journey of a thousand miles sometimes ends very, very badly… “AMBITION”
(IND): You aren’t paid to believe in the power of your dreams… “GET TO WORK”
(BAN & IRE): Some people dream of success, while other people live to crush those dreams… “SUCCESS”
(WI): It’s a short trip from riding the waves of change to being torn apart by the jaws of defeat… “CHANGE”
(ENG): It’s over man let her go… “PERSISTENCE”
Dreams are like rainbows only idiots chase them… “DREAMS”
(SA): Not everyone gets to be an astronaut when they grow up… “POTENTIAL”
(NZ): Much work remains to be done before we can announce our total failure to make any progress… “PLANNING”
(SRI): Always remember that you are unique, just like everyone else… “INDIVIDUALITY”
(NET, CAN, HOL): If you want to go to the top, prepare to KISS lot of the bottom… “FLATTERY”
(BER, KEN, ZIM): Because you have given so much of yourself to the company that you don’t have anything that we can use… “RETIREMENT”
Sorrow
Am in outright forlornness… This is possibly true but probably false…
The three things that I value the most in my life are…
1) She
2) She
3) She
1) She - to shower love and affection.
2) She - to share my ecstatic joy and grief.
3) She - to be with me till death.
But…………..
The atmosphere is so desolate; it’s like she is omnipresent, which is possibly true but probably false. And when she turned into superior version of “Chapel of Love” in my second life and left me in dilemma in my real life. Her quiet posture stunned me and my heart broke out when she turned her back. I became the “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy,” with appy fizz in my hand. She turned discourteous and I was in melancholy and in an anguished “Delta Dawn,”. She pulls off from second life as well as from real life. A few contemporary vocalists played neo-tonal or neo-Romantic music and tried to pull off the bleakness of “kisses & hugs” or the forlornness of “Am I Blue?” with such genuine shades of feelings inside me; the vocalists were not loud enough to pull off the bleakness. Perhaps she is an accomplished actress in second life as well in real life, my emotions always ring true.
The world “not as static, fixed forms of reality but as floating pictures of radiant qualities, which range from states of forlornness and emptiness to quiet or ecstatic joy.
I hide my tears when I say her name but the pain in my heart still the same, although I smile and seem free, there is no one who misses her more than me.
म्य्सेल्फ़,तवो words
I’ve been blessed with a LOT of free time and I’ve been thinking and thinking and I now realise something I’ve know all along, that my life lacks any sense of direction. I fell sick and I realised almost nobody in this world missed me, I realise that if I were to die this instant nobody will notice, life will just be the same for almost all the ppl I know. I realise one’s life should be measured by the number of people he touches, he influences, he cares about, the number of people who would notice immediately that he’s gone and as I lie alone in my bed Annie Hall comes to mind and Woody Allen’s Quote rings in my ears…
“I feel that life is divided into the horrible and the miserable. That’s the two categories. The horrible are like, I don’t know, terminal cases, you know, and blind people, crippled. I don’t know how they get through life. It’s amazing to me. And the miserable is everyone else. So you should be thankful that you’re miserable, because that’s very lucky, to be miserable.”
Indeed how fortunate most of us are to be miserable…
I toss and turn in my bed, with nothing else but my silly computer for company coz you know after a few hours the internet, movies, music everything sorta start messing with your head and you get so bored you wanna shout but you can’t…
I close my eyes in disgust, think What’s the purpose? What’s the reason for living? What’s the reson for Consciousness? What’s the reason for pain? What’s the reason for The Universe ? What’s the reason for everything? I guess I just have to forget these questions and continue with my sorry little life. Maybe as Agent Smith in The Matrix says There is no purpose to life but I know he’s the bad guy and his views are wrong but why are we able to accept our lives when nothing truly ever matters?
In the end I guess all that matters is you are happy btu when you start losing the only thing that makes you happy what do you do?
I goto my terrace, lie down, look up to the stars, start spotting some constellations, some planets and i realise how truly insignificant I am. How meaningless my problems my fears my pains are… I see the beautiful night sky and I’m happy for all the ppl who are happy at that moment, I’m hopeful for all the ppl who are broken,down and sad. In the dark cool night illuminated by the stars I realise even though I may mean nothing to ppl there are some personal pleasures worth living for..
As I kick the football by myself with not a soul around I realise somthing that sums up my entire life till now, I think about how few people I’ve managed to keep hold of, how few I’ve influenced…
I realise that I am A Lonely Failure..
“I feel that life is divided into the horrible and the miserable. That’s the two categories. The horrible are like, I don’t know, terminal cases, you know, and blind people, crippled. I don’t know how they get through life. It’s amazing to me. And the miserable is everyone else. So you should be thankful that you’re miserable, because that’s very lucky, to be miserable.”
Indeed how fortunate most of us are to be miserable…
I toss and turn in my bed, with nothing else but my silly computer for company coz you know after a few hours the internet, movies, music everything sorta start messing with your head and you get so bored you wanna shout but you can’t…
I close my eyes in disgust, think What’s the purpose? What’s the reason for living? What’s the reson for Consciousness? What’s the reason for pain? What’s the reason for The Universe ? What’s the reason for everything? I guess I just have to forget these questions and continue with my sorry little life. Maybe as Agent Smith in The Matrix says There is no purpose to life but I know he’s the bad guy and his views are wrong but why are we able to accept our lives when nothing truly ever matters?
In the end I guess all that matters is you are happy btu when you start losing the only thing that makes you happy what do you do?
I goto my terrace, lie down, look up to the stars, start spotting some constellations, some planets and i realise how truly insignificant I am. How meaningless my problems my fears my pains are… I see the beautiful night sky and I’m happy for all the ppl who are happy at that moment, I’m hopeful for all the ppl who are broken,down and sad. In the dark cool night illuminated by the stars I realise even though I may mean nothing to ppl there are some personal pleasures worth living for..
As I kick the football by myself with not a soul around I realise somthing that sums up my entire life till now, I think about how few people I’ve managed to keep hold of, how few I’ve influenced…
I realise that I am A Lonely Failure..
वही हर्ट अन इन्नोसेंट?
It is a full time cascade atomization of lingering thoughts of few people who have a lean spectrum of mean mixture of cruel substance, which capitalize over few people who are innocent by nature. Gaining advantage directly over innocent two toed lings is not a big deal but it is insane. It defines the character of that particular individual who tries to achieve the same.
The complexity of defining the degree of sin involved in being innocent is like the complexity involved in calling a frivolous person a sinful person. Calling a person sinful for being innocent is unacceptable from the very moment as this thought aroused from deep inside. And it is so awful that the person becomes so innocent at a particular situation that he/she is being cascaded by the fake visage that was portrayed by another person.
The effect of the port created by the geometry of the situation becomes magnanimous or appears to be magnanimous depending upon the innocent nature of that particular person.
Being innocent is not a crime… but being innocent while being hi-jacked by thoughts/acts of another person is a crime!
As far as the one who takes over advantage of the one who is innocent by nature is concerned….
* he/she is cruel by thoughts… which can be witnessed by their action.
* everybody knows Who you are and What you are… people around you are clever, matured and brave enough to tackle you.
* before being banned by the society try to change your mind set.
The complexity of defining the degree of sin involved in being innocent is like the complexity involved in calling a frivolous person a sinful person. Calling a person sinful for being innocent is unacceptable from the very moment as this thought aroused from deep inside. And it is so awful that the person becomes so innocent at a particular situation that he/she is being cascaded by the fake visage that was portrayed by another person.
The effect of the port created by the geometry of the situation becomes magnanimous or appears to be magnanimous depending upon the innocent nature of that particular person.
Being innocent is not a crime… but being innocent while being hi-jacked by thoughts/acts of another person is a crime!
As far as the one who takes over advantage of the one who is innocent by nature is concerned….
* he/she is cruel by thoughts… which can be witnessed by their action.
* everybody knows Who you are and What you are… people around you are clever, matured and brave enough to tackle you.
* before being banned by the society try to change your mind set.
लव एंड friendship
Friendship and love. Both are so much related to each other. And both are so dissimilar! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship possible between persons of opposite sex? Let us try and understand.
What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. We can always count upon our good friends in an emergency. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.
What about love? In a relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are taken for granted. But love transcends all this. During love, we are attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have many friends. A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt! Love also involves a physical element. Friendship does not have that. This is a vital difference. Nature gives us love so that the specie can go forward. Nature does not give us friendship.
Your heart beats will never increase in anticipation of meeting your friend. You will not lie awake at night thinking about your friend. You will not feel totally lost, if you don’t meet your friend for a few days. You will not have dreams in your eyes thinking about your friend. But in love, you will do all this and much more. Indeed, there is no comparison between love and friendship.
What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good friends. We can always count upon our good friends in an emergency. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.
What about love? In a relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are taken for granted. But love transcends all this. During love, we are attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have many friends. A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt! Love also involves a physical element. Friendship does not have that. This is a vital difference. Nature gives us love so that the specie can go forward. Nature does not give us friendship.
Your heart beats will never increase in anticipation of meeting your friend. You will not lie awake at night thinking about your friend. You will not feel totally lost, if you don’t meet your friend for a few days. You will not have dreams in your eyes thinking about your friend. But in love, you will do all this and much more. Indeed, there is no comparison between love and friendship.
डिफरेंस बेत्वीन सोमेबोद्य यू like एंड सोमेबोद्य यू love
In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster.
But in front of the person you like, you get happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring.
But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.
If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.
In front of the person you love, you can’t say everything on your mind.
But in front of the person you like, you can.
In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.
But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.
You can’t look straight into the eyes of the one you love.
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.
When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.
The feeling of love starts from the eye.
But the feeling of like starts from the ear.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears.
But
If you try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever.
Dream like you are going to live forever
Live like you are going to die tomorrow
But in front of the person you like, you get happy.
In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring.
But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.
If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.
But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.
In front of the person you love, you can’t say everything on your mind.
But in front of the person you like, you can.
In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.
But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.
You can’t look straight into the eyes of the one you love.
But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.
When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.
But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.
The feeling of love starts from the eye.
But the feeling of like starts from the ear.
So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears.
But
If you try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever.
Dream like you are going to live forever
Live like you are going to die tomorrow
डिफरेंस बेत्वीन लव एंड friendship..
Love is an abstract term which does not fall within a specific definition. For some it is finding the right person while for some others it is a unique feeling. The sum total of the variegated feeling and ideas would lead to the simple deduction that love is end product of a desire to have a partner, a partner who compliments an individual’s desires, feelings and emotions.
Difference Between Love and Friendship
What is friendship, and love? Is there a difference? These are two of the questions that have always intrigued most people. Unfortunately, precise and concise answers to such a question cannot be given. The least that can be said about these two is that both complement each other and that friendship is a subset of love!
Friendship
So what exactly is friendship? How do we define it? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? These are questions to which answers can be sought but then they are case specific.
Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do, it’s not about whether you’re good or not, it’s not a reflection of you, it’s a balanced relationship between people. It varies from person to person. But to define friendship loosely one could say that:
We call those people our friends whom
* We care and are ready to help us during times of distress
* With whom we share most of our thoughts
* We can always count upon our during an emergency
Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there’s a lot of love around friendship. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.
Love
The primary aspect in love, which makes it stand apart from friendship, is that the two individuals share a certain intimacy, which is greater than friendship
* A primary element in love is the physical element. Friendship has its boundaries defined and no matter how close you are with your friend, it is devoid of physical intimacy. The individuals look at an emotional quotient, which also involves their sexual attachment with each other. This is a vital difference between friendship and love
* In love, individuals generally have only one partner as against friendship. You may have numerous people whom you could call friends/ good friends but there exists only one person with whom you are in love
* A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt!
* Friendship may last for a life time as does love and relationship but then the time spent by the individuals with each other is high in love / relationship as compared to friendship Life without love is like a year without spring. One could say that love is friendship plus physical closeness.
Difference Between Love and Friendship
What is friendship, and love? Is there a difference? These are two of the questions that have always intrigued most people. Unfortunately, precise and concise answers to such a question cannot be given. The least that can be said about these two is that both complement each other and that friendship is a subset of love!
Friendship
So what exactly is friendship? How do we define it? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? These are questions to which answers can be sought but then they are case specific.
Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do, it’s not about whether you’re good or not, it’s not a reflection of you, it’s a balanced relationship between people. It varies from person to person. But to define friendship loosely one could say that:
We call those people our friends whom
* We care and are ready to help us during times of distress
* With whom we share most of our thoughts
* We can always count upon our during an emergency
Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there’s a lot of love around friendship. We are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain way. We need not explain anything to our very good friends. The friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our friends.
Love
The primary aspect in love, which makes it stand apart from friendship, is that the two individuals share a certain intimacy, which is greater than friendship
* A primary element in love is the physical element. Friendship has its boundaries defined and no matter how close you are with your friend, it is devoid of physical intimacy. The individuals look at an emotional quotient, which also involves their sexual attachment with each other. This is a vital difference between friendship and love
* In love, individuals generally have only one partner as against friendship. You may have numerous people whom you could call friends/ good friends but there exists only one person with whom you are in love
* A loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt!
* Friendship may last for a life time as does love and relationship but then the time spent by the individuals with each other is high in love / relationship as compared to friendship Life without love is like a year without spring. One could say that love is friendship plus physical closeness.
लव=फटे!!!
Is love over-rated? All through a man’s life he is bombarded by this force of nature, this little sensation in our soul, the tingly feeling in our heart, the source of instant gratification. Some people call it ‘love’. Love as a divine presentation. Yet others call it as a mere chemical reactions (Chemical reactions may involve some amalgamation process of hearts and brains by induction method) or something to that effect. Whatever that is, one thing is for sure. We are fascinated, enslaved and betrayed by it.
One of my favorite things to do is to ride on an empty road in my cruiser. While I was doing just this, I saw another vehicle race towards me in the distance. With the bad eyesight those endless hours of sitting in the computer have bestowed upon me, I was able to make out little of the person driving in the scooter. As it neared me however the curvaceous outlines of her body and the elegant posture did little to hide the gender. When she crossed me, in the flying moment, my eyes locked and time froze, the intensity of that split second and the ferociousness of that gaze sent me on a trip to heaven. Now I’ve never personally been in love, but if that split second is any indication of the true quality of love?
Answer: Possibly ‘YES’ but probably ‘NO’.
Consciously or unconsciously, people believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. It can spontaneously degenerate when the magic “just isn’t there” anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another’s goodness. But as far as parents are concerned ‘LOVE’ is a sin. Parents virtually become misogynist because of the reason that their “SHE” has fallen in love.
But is love necessary? From what is seen around and by carefully weighing the pros and cons, love brings as much sadness as it does happiness. Peoples’ lives ruin when a loved one is lost. Hearts wither in the gloom of lovelorn emotions. So what’s all this fuss about love?
To answer this question we must first delve into the subject of ‘life’
As a wise man once put so eloquently, ‘life sucks’. It is an accepted fact though people might word it differently. We are born one day and die another. And the days between these two are tumultuous. In the broader picture these days are insignificant to humanity. The earth revolves, the sunshine’s, the birds chirp and you are forgotten.
Then how in god’s sweet playground do we deal with life? The answer lies in your heart. It lies in this silly thing called love. It makes our journey to obscurity a little less bumpy. It eases the turbulent flow of the insanity of life.
Is love a choice? If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn’t just happen but, you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, you’ll love easily. By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone. And as far as bad things are concerned… umm… It is just up to you to choose that person.
Remember there are levels of love, and true love is unconditional love, a “CHOICE” and just because someone says they love you doesn’t mean they love you. Their actions will tell.
There are many combinations, all of which form some kind of love. Is there passion and friendship but very little commitment? This is defined as “passionate love.” Are you committed but feels no passion or friendship? This is called “empty love.” What most people ultimately desire, is “TRUE LOVE” the total package: passion, intimacy, friendship and commitment in one healthy relationship. It’s the most fulfilling love. It is unconditional, and in my opinion the only “CHOICE”.
Because deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time — which nearly always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife gives more and more to each other. Exactly WHAT??
Love can be viewed triangularly. There are three key components: passion, intimacy, and commitment.
Passion underlies physical desire, sexual behavior, and arousal. This is the physical side.
Intimacy is the emotional aspect: closeness, connectedness, and warmth of friendship.
Commitment is the decision-making part “CHOICE” of love; are couples willing to work it out?
If someone tells you true love only happens once BEWARE!! They’ve seen too many Disney films or are trying to manipulate you. People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your “true love” turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile end it and find a healthy person to love.
It is the fate of fate that fate is always addressed only when bad things happen…
It is the fate of love that love is always been seen by our parents as a sin…
It is the fate that some people fall in love and ultimately crash into the sea shore with a beer bottle with long beard…
It is the fate that some people happen to marry the same girl they loved… He He!!
One of my favorite things to do is to ride on an empty road in my cruiser. While I was doing just this, I saw another vehicle race towards me in the distance. With the bad eyesight those endless hours of sitting in the computer have bestowed upon me, I was able to make out little of the person driving in the scooter. As it neared me however the curvaceous outlines of her body and the elegant posture did little to hide the gender. When she crossed me, in the flying moment, my eyes locked and time froze, the intensity of that split second and the ferociousness of that gaze sent me on a trip to heaven. Now I’ve never personally been in love, but if that split second is any indication of the true quality of love?
Answer: Possibly ‘YES’ but probably ‘NO’.
Consciously or unconsciously, people believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. It can spontaneously degenerate when the magic “just isn’t there” anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another’s goodness. But as far as parents are concerned ‘LOVE’ is a sin. Parents virtually become misogynist because of the reason that their “SHE” has fallen in love.
But is love necessary? From what is seen around and by carefully weighing the pros and cons, love brings as much sadness as it does happiness. Peoples’ lives ruin when a loved one is lost. Hearts wither in the gloom of lovelorn emotions. So what’s all this fuss about love?
To answer this question we must first delve into the subject of ‘life’
As a wise man once put so eloquently, ‘life sucks’. It is an accepted fact though people might word it differently. We are born one day and die another. And the days between these two are tumultuous. In the broader picture these days are insignificant to humanity. The earth revolves, the sunshine’s, the birds chirp and you are forgotten.
Then how in god’s sweet playground do we deal with life? The answer lies in your heart. It lies in this silly thing called love. It makes our journey to obscurity a little less bumpy. It eases the turbulent flow of the insanity of life.
Is love a choice? If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn’t just happen but, you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, you’ll love easily. By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone. And as far as bad things are concerned… umm… It is just up to you to choose that person.
Remember there are levels of love, and true love is unconditional love, a “CHOICE” and just because someone says they love you doesn’t mean they love you. Their actions will tell.
There are many combinations, all of which form some kind of love. Is there passion and friendship but very little commitment? This is defined as “passionate love.” Are you committed but feels no passion or friendship? This is called “empty love.” What most people ultimately desire, is “TRUE LOVE” the total package: passion, intimacy, friendship and commitment in one healthy relationship. It’s the most fulfilling love. It is unconditional, and in my opinion the only “CHOICE”.
Because deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time — which nearly always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife gives more and more to each other. Exactly WHAT??
Love can be viewed triangularly. There are three key components: passion, intimacy, and commitment.
Passion underlies physical desire, sexual behavior, and arousal. This is the physical side.
Intimacy is the emotional aspect: closeness, connectedness, and warmth of friendship.
Commitment is the decision-making part “CHOICE” of love; are couples willing to work it out?
If someone tells you true love only happens once BEWARE!! They’ve seen too many Disney films or are trying to manipulate you. People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your “true love” turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile end it and find a healthy person to love.
It is the fate of fate that fate is always addressed only when bad things happen…
It is the fate of love that love is always been seen by our parents as a sin…
It is the fate that some people fall in love and ultimately crash into the sea shore with a beer bottle with long beard…
It is the fate that some people happen to marry the same girl they loved… He He!!
लव अत फर्स्ट सिघत?
Love at first sight? Yeah, why not! First impression always counts.
One can probably or never judge the chemistry involved in love. There are no chemical or mathematical equations proving love at first sight.
Some enchanted evening you may see a stranger irrespective of what you see quotidian. You may see a stranger across a crowded room. And somehow you know, you know even then, that somewhere you’ll see her again and again at least for the reverse case of women.
People know what kind f relationship they gotta maintain with another within few minutes of meeting, that helps them determine how much effort they are willing to put into developing a relationship, It is almost a self fulfilling prophecy.
According to color experts (Director of the Pantone Color Institute), for girls, red is the most stimulating color you can wear. In fact wearing or seeing red actually increases blood flow, and mimics attraction. Guys who frequently wear blue are stable, faithful and always there. The blue guy is perfect for a serious relationship: he’s reliable, faithful and can match his own clothes.
Some people say: I raised ma head and for a moment I looked into her/his eyes, I knew from my heart that she/he was the one!
But according to me ‘Love at first sight’ seems to be attributed exclusively to face attractiveness and other aspects like appearance, voice, gesticulating moves, smell (taking a gentle deep breath is enough you don’t really have to behave like dogs). According to analysis, if you think of becoming friends then you’ll communicate with him/her more often, and you’ll be telling more about you and do things that will help ensure a friendship does develop. We are able to judge attractiveness with surprising speed and on the basis of very little information. It seems that pretty faces ‘prime’ our minds to make us more likely to associate the pretty face with a positive emotion and keeps us in proximity with the pretty face. There are no definite rules to what kind of face can be called beautiful, but we chose faces of extreme, very ugly or very pretty. Seen rapidly, viewers were able to make what amounted to an unconscious, albeit accurate, assessment of physical beauty, but everything depends on the eyes of the beholder.
Each one has an equal right to exist and express their feelings, Even though many scientific researchers found out that people fall in love in first 30sec on seeing another person… Their theory is still in metastable state.
Is there such a thing as love at the first sight? Or it is just infatuation? How is it possible to feel so much for a stranger, a passerby?
Love has no limits, no color, no time…I see but… How can you love the person you have just met? Is this love at first sight, or merely an attraction that later turns to love? Difficult to know… I respect whom has this firm belief, but still have some doubts about…passion can be, but love…real love…don’t know…
इफ यू हप्पें तो बे सोमेथिंग;वहत विल इ बे?
There may be many an options with you but,
I’ll turn out to be the only probability or there will be no possibility.
If you happen to be my primary school mate;
I’d have blown my trumpets and made you happy.
If you happen to be my secondary school mate;
I’d have been down to earth, calm but naughty.
If you happen to be my higher secondary school mate;
I’d have been pretty ordinary.
If you had been my college mate;
You’d have not experienced much of me.
I’d have been yet another fellow in your corridor of life.
If you are a book;
You’ll either be remaining in my cupboard unopened,
You’ll be supporting this muffled head’s head quite often as a pillow.
Most probably you’ll be in the book store;
I’ll be standing out wondering whether or not to buy you.
If you are a leech and if you find yourself inside my room;
You’ll feel for your very existence.
If you happen to be freedom;
I’ll be cast by vendetta or non-violence.
If you are my friend;
I’ll be both resurrection and life.
If you happen to be my sister/brother;
I’ll be your van guarder, and will give my shoulders along with hugs and kisses.
If you happen to be my girl;
I’ll be the reason for your complex splendors castled by the vicissitudes of fate,
I’ll be performing permutations and combination’s and would have become a mad scientist or at least mad.
You’ll be the essence of my life; towering above the others reaching the eminent peak both in my will and Jill.
If you happen to be a gorgeous girl who by passed me;
I’d have bought copyrights from your guy and dashed a thesis about you in split seconds.
If you happen to be single and a gorgeous female;
I’d have posted a disclaimer on your forehead.
If you happen to be my pen;
You’d have never been of use much in exams,
You’d have experienced my acidic saliva;
Quite often you’ll be penning down a stretch of juggled letters,
Letters jiggle and bob out in different colors with multivariate meanings in the white sheet like a merry-go-round.
If you are rain;
I will stretch my hands,
Stare at the clouds which obscure the sun with dark and loud,
And get myself drenched in you even though I have sinusitis which happens to be a mystery and my doubt.
If you happen to be stagnated water;
I would have stamped, jumped, rolled over you bold;
Though you were muddy and making my dress dirty,
Caring about the catching of cold was not worthy.
If you are experiencing me as of now,
I’ll be a jack ass, a weirdo with little hopes.
वही इ फाल इन लव विथ यू...............
Since I met you,
I’ve fallen in love with you
at least a hundred times
for a hundred different reasons.
Sometimes I fall in love with you
when I watch you doing something you enjoy,
something you’re so involved in that
you’re unaware of my presence.
Sometimes I fall in love with you
when I listen to you talk to other people.
Whether you’re being interesting and funny
or warm and caring and genuinely concerned,
you have a way of making people feel better
with nothing more than words.
Sometimes I fall in love with you
just thinking about you,
remembering all the memories we’ve made…
falling in love for the first time,
staying in love during the rough times,
finding more to love about each other every day.
And whenever I think about
the wonderful things that lie ahead of us,
I fall totally and completely in love with you
all over again.
I’ve fallen in love with you
at least a hundred times
for a hundred different reasons.
Sometimes I fall in love with you
when I watch you doing something you enjoy,
something you’re so involved in that
you’re unaware of my presence.
Sometimes I fall in love with you
when I listen to you talk to other people.
Whether you’re being interesting and funny
or warm and caring and genuinely concerned,
you have a way of making people feel better
with nothing more than words.
Sometimes I fall in love with you
just thinking about you,
remembering all the memories we’ve made…
falling in love for the first time,
staying in love during the rough times,
finding more to love about each other every day.
And whenever I think about
the wonderful things that lie ahead of us,
I fall totally and completely in love with you
all over again.
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