Monday, November 10, 2008

लव someone

If you Love someone because you think he or she is gorgeous....
then it's not love: It's - "Infatuation" -

If you love someone because you think you should not leave him or her because other think you shouldnot....
then it's not love: It's - "Compromise" -

If you love someone beacuse you think you cannot live without his or her touch....
then it's not love: It's - "Lust" -

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him or her...
then it's not love: It's - "Inferiority Complex" -

If you love someone because you think if you leave it will hurt his or her feelings...
then it's not love: It's - "Charity" -

If you love someone because you share everything with him or her....
then it's not love: It's - "Friendship" -

But if you feel pain of the other person more than him or her even when he is stable and you cry for him or her...
that's - "LOVE" -

If you are attracted to a person and stay with him or her for ever without any regrets...
that's - "LOVE" -

If you let him go knowing that he or she has to go but he or she doen't want to...
that's - "LOVE"

लव...

Love is the word that makes one go into dreams of bliss and the word that can take one into pain. It all depends, how your love turned out. If you were stabbed in the back, pain will be the result and if you got loyalty, it will be pleasure. When one looks at the scenes of destruction of one's love, when one revisits the places where love had blossomed, below the flowering trees, one goes in to the memories of the lost love. It hurts and it hurts very badly. Similarly the love that enriches us can be invaluable. It gives a new breath, a new life. Love can give life and when lost, life may be lost. Call it addiction to love or whatever, love is a feeling that cannot be described in words. it has to be felt.

We hear about many break-ups and separations. What happened to the love that brought the couple together in the beginning? How can ex lovers talk of revenge? In love, there is no revenge. If your beloved stabs you in the back, you will not ask for revenge, because you loved and you still love. As I have yet to talk to someone who stabbed the beloved, I don't know about his or her thinking, but it must be that of - how could I do this? Or may be they are so evil that they applaud themselves for their backstabbing!

Love is sublime. Love gives power. Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of. Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky.

तवो choices

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child."

Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!"

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world".

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

मोमेंट्स इन life

There are moments in life when you love & miss someone so much
that you just want to pick them from your dreams

and hug them for real! And to know that depth of love
is truly as wonderful as life itself.

When one door closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the
closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

Don't love for looks; they can deceive.
Don't love for wealth; even that fades away.
Love someone who makes you smile,
because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
But remember to always have a smile within your own heart first.

Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human and
enough hope to make you happy.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything that they have.

The brightest future will always be based on a darker past;
you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyone
around you is crying.

People come into your life for a reason

People come into your life for a reason,

a season or a lifetime. When you know which
one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,

it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.


They have come to assist you through a difficulty,

to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or

at an inconvenient time,this person will say or

do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been

met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered

and now it is time to move on.



Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime

lessons, things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have

learned to use in all other relationships

and areas of your life. It is said that

love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


Thank you for being a part of my life,

whether you were a reason, a season

or a lifetime.

मेअनिंग ऑफ़ Friendship

Friendship is the best relation one can have ever in his entire life. Friendship is a lifetime bond, a divine affiliation and a loving emotion which do not seek inheritance. Friendship is a relation which we build after stepping into the mortal world. There is no blood relation in friendship, it is a relation that threads in hearts. Friendship cannot be explained in words. It is an intense feeling that buds in the heart of two friends.Friendship blooms from faith, love and respect built by two hearts that come close to each other with a feeling that they can share their joys and sorrows throughout their life. In the middle of a work day when your friend checks his mailbox and he happens to find one of these: A cute friendship, a famous friendship, a funny friendship or true friendship , he is going to feel real good and would be reminded of you with fondness.

You don't need an occasion or reason to honor your friend or thank him or her for their support. You can pay a tribute to them at any point of day and by any means. Reciting to your friend some beautiful friendship is one of the most soothing way to express yourself to your loving friend without saying much. Friendship is not about leading or following, it is simply being with each other to share each and every single moment of our lives. These simple words contain in themselves the entire beauty of friendship. Friendship doesn't imply any scholarly line of statement, it can be woven into simple words with deep thoughts. You can recite friendship of renowned poets to honory our friend but lining up your emotion in your own words is the most natural and loving manner of expression anytime.

Friendship can denote varied emotions. It can be to inspire your friend when he or she is in blue, it can be a heartening note when your friend will head for a fresh challenge in life, it can be a consolatory note when your friend is in a state of despondency and it can also be a note of sweet nothing which can be addressed without any cause or event.Friendship makes you feel loved through and through for being the person you are. Friendship is the most selfless bond one can share in his entire life.

Friendship help you to speak those heartywords about your friend which you may not be able to describe in mere informalspeech. A friend loves every bit of yours even if you bear devilish traits morethan angelic ones. You can convey these thoughts of yours through friendshipquotes. Good friendship strike chords in nearly everyone'ssoul. Friendship buy an everlastingsmile on your friend's face, the moment he gets to hear or read it. Friendship explain you the role of a friend in your life in arhythmic pattern. It tells you that a friend is like a father who would scoldyou when you will do a mistake, a friend also acts as a mother who would embraceyou when you are in deep sorrow, a friend will tease and play pranks on you likeyour sister, a friend is one who would shield your integrity and protect youfrom all odds just like your brother, in short, a friend is an embodiment of allworldly relations. A true friend is a depiction of every relation we are closeto in our life with just a little difference that we possess those worldlyrelations by blood and friends are made by us. We choose our own friends andit's very important to make sure that they stay with us forever.

Friendship is a rare and precious commodity. If youhave a friend, who truly understands you and accepts you despite yourshortcomings, then you are the luckiest person in the world. Friendshipquotes portray this expression in a beautiful rhyme, gripped in few lines. Friendship also determine the fact that a true friend walks in whilethe whole world walks out. True friendship means a single soul thatdwells in two bodies. You can always count on true friends. They help youride out every storm, they cheer you when you are down and they chide you whenyou are wrong. Sometimes you get so preoccupied with life's mundane troublesthat you do not find the time to tell your friends how much they mean to you. Itis when you can express you heart with the help of some really meaningful andsweet friendship quotes to your dearest friend.

There is a very famous friendship whichstates that 'a friend in need is a friend indeed'. This friendshipis very simple to sound but it reflects a deep thought which states that afriend who wouldstand by you all through and even in your worst times, he or she will beyour true friend. Friendship doesn't mean sharing joys, having fun andthen walking off when you are hurled into the depth of gloom. Friendshipmay sound to be only a monosyllabic word but it has an intense connotationweaved inside. It is a friend with whom you can share all your grief and joyresting your head on his or her shoulder. You can voice those words to yourfriend which you can never tell your parents. You tend to trust him or her morethan any relation on this planet.

You can bestow your love and affection on your dearestfriend by reciting some beautiful friendship quotes either crafted byyourself or you might as well pick some good stuffs from the works of poets. Friendship quotes define every emotion and are also created for everysituation. Friendship quotes can be categorized as friendship love, friendshipinspirational , friendshipthank you , friendshipsorry,best friend, classic friendship, true friendship,forever friends , friendship sayings andmake friends. True friendship demonstrate thetruth that true friends would laugh at yourjokes when they are not so funny and they will as well sympathize with yoursorrows when they are not so harsh.

To sum up, friendship are one of the mostsignificant ways to confer one's feeling to his or her friend. Friendship help you express how much you love andcare for your friend. Friendship make it easier to confessyour guilt and apologize if you have hurt your friend consciously orunconsciously any day. One friendship will speak volumes about yourfeelings that you want to convey to your friend and you can actually make use ofit when words will fall short to define your emotions.

Monday, November 3, 2008

बेऔतिफुल girl

This flower caught my eyes.
May be it was the fresh scent, may be it was the bold display of colours, it’s radiance.. something.. it made me turn.
I couldn’t see it very well in crowd but couldn’t take my eyes of it. There was a strange force drawing me towards it.
I decided to step towards it.
As I went near, an amazing thing happened. It began to change!
In a moment it was a smiling torch.
I blinked over and over again…
It was then surrounded by ferocious tigeresses. It’s eyes were glittering!
I rubbed my eyes. It suddenly disappeared…
Then suddenly some time later flower transfigured into an angel.
Just as I was thinking of drawing my sengal out, it changed again.. into the beautiful flower.
Mustering all the courage that I had, with a hand holding tightly on the sengal, I went closer, initially at a slower pace during interval and later at good pace after the movie.
It did not change.
I went closer and closer.
No change.
I was now almost at a touching distance.
I went closer and thought f having a chat..
It wasn’t there anymore !
In front of me suddenly the ferocious tigeresses popped up…

Unfortunately I couldn’t use any pop up blocker there…
My friends pulled me out of it and we went in 6wheeler and the flower along with those tigers went in 3wheeler…

Flower refers to the Girl in green chudidhar who came to Gopi krishna hall yesterday.

Tiger’s refers to her mother and some anonymous lady.

Sengal refers to Nokia 6600…

Update:one day, green leaves will fade away,

faded leaves will fall away, fallen leaves will be thrown away,

but green flower will never fade from my memory…